What is"kunya"?

 

"Kunya" is a Hausa word whose meaning includes (at least) embarrassment, shame, modesty, and deference. It is a feeling which certain social circumstances arouse. One area where "kunya" is important is in social relations. For example, in-laws feel "kunya" toward each other. A son-in-law would not call his father-in-law by name, would assume a kneeling position while greeting him, and so on. One also feels "kunya" when publicly caught violating some social restriction. This would be the case for Suhailu, who was eating with his left hand.